Published: Apr 27, 2017
Everyone adapts their behavior to fit their needs. We may do this to be more comfortable or to feel safer. Sometimes these shifts are subtle; we may not even realize we’ve made an adjustment. As we age, we change the way we tackle our everyday tasks, and a great example of this is driving. A survey from the CDC showed that in drivers over 65 years old, 57% of men and 81% of women avoided driving in specific conditions. Those conditions included:
In this survey, bad weather and night driving conditions were the leading reasons for self-regulation. You may have seen this happen in your own family. Driving in adverse conditions can be stressful for anyone, and older drivers have even more to consider.
To support your loved one as they age, you should think and plan for what may happen in the future. Your senior’s driving will adjust as their abilities change—and rightly so! But by paying attention to actions that could be dangerous, you can avoid a major accident.
Consider your loved one’s medical concerns and imagine how their driving could be impacted—your senior may not even notice that they’re doing something differently than normal. Does your loved one have:
Driving is a source of independence, and it’s possible to keep that privilege far into one’s golden years. To stay safe and keep peace of mind for both you and your senior, make sure to:
With preparation and precaution, driving as a senior can still be a realistic and safe mode of transportation. However, preparedness also means keeping an eye on warning signs. Some warning signs that your loved one’s driving is no longer safe include:
Help your senior by being attentive; don’t ignore the warning signs. Some signs may seem small, but they could be indicative of a deeper problem. If you feel genuine concern for your loved one’s safety, it may be time to talk with them about no longer driving.
How to Have the Conversation About Driving
Most likely, your loved one already knows that their driving isn’t what it used to be. The conversation about driving is a difficult one, and you should anticipate multiple talks over a stretch of time. It may be difficult for your loved one to accept what you’re telling them. To help, frame the conversation in questions, so that you can express your concern without sounding accusatory.
Examples could be:
“Dad, how’s driving been? Is it hard to (see the lines on the road/tell the light colors/drive at night)…?”
“Hey, I noticed you’ve been catching rides with Edith lately; is everything okay with your car? Do you feel okay driving?”
“How has your car been driving? Has the (wheel been shaking/engine made new noises/check engine light come on)…?”
These are sensitive conversations, and you should be open and respectful. Show your loved one what you’ve noticed, and give them the opportunity to explain. It’s unfair to generalize older peoples’ driving or make assumptions about your senior. Being patient and actively listening will help you choose the right option with your senior.
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